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Saturday, May 4, 2013

A Mother is a Wife and a Wife is a Mother Part One






Trivial Question

Question:  How long did Jesus tell thee disciples they should have watched and prayed, when they were at the Garden of Gethsemane?

Answer: One (1) Hour Matthew 26:40
40 And he cometh unto the disciples, and findeth them asleep, and saith unto Peter, What, could ye not watch with me one hour?






Mother is a Wife and a Wife is a Mother
 A mother is a person who carries and gives birth to a child, then that mother then cares for that child. She must nurture the child as the child grows into adulthood. A mother is a wife; she is the female marriage partner.  In reality, this is what  a wife is supposed to be, she is to have the role of a mother. She is to love, support her husband, and their children. In addition, sexually satisfied her husband and most of all have children. Be fruitful and multiply in the earth.   There was a tremendous shame, disgrace, and dishonor that were place on a woman’s reputation, which was not able to have children within the community in which the woman lived in.  It is not that way today, the role of the mother has been perverted for the most part, the role of the mother has been strip and now you have mothers who have lost their natural affections.




We will start out talking about Sari.
Genesis 16:1-4 King James Version
1.  Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar.
 2.  And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the Lord hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.
 3.  And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife.
 4.  And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes.





 In Genesis, which means “beginnings,” the Bible talks of Sarai, being barren, and she gives Hagar to Abram “to wife.” Remember what our topic is about.  “A wife is a mother and a mother is a wife.”




We find that children always represents, newest of life.  Children and their new beginning it is the only immortality on this earth that a man or woman has.  The word “barren” in this portion of scriptures means incapable of sustaining life; ("the dead and barren Moon"). The moon has no trees, no water, and no oxygen.  Therefore, the moon cannot bring forth life or even sustain life.  This is what is what the Bible is saying when the Bible talks about a woman who is “barren.” Barren also means providing no shelter or sustenance. Sustenance meaning that what needs to be eaten to sustain a person's body; food, esp. food containing the required vitamins and energy is not there.

Being “barren” can also mean not having financial means whereby one lives.   To be “barren” means to be completely wanting or lacking.  However, for the most part when most of us heard the word “barren” in the Bible we just think of a woman who cannot have children or off springs.  Little do we know that our physical condition is usually a reflection of what is going on with us spiritually.   Sad thing about today’s society is; we are choosing to be barren. 

Being “barren” can also mean not having financial means whereby one lives.   To be “barren” means to be completely wanting or lacking.  However, for the most part when most of us heard the word “barren” in the Bible we just think of a woman who cannot have children or off springs.  Little do we know that our physical condition is usually a reflection of what is going on with us spiritually.   Sad thing about today’s society is; we are choosing to be barren. 


Remember, when a woman gives life she must not only give the life, but sustain the life until it is of age and able to sustain the life itself  This is what we teach our children as the grow into teens, this is why it is such a tragedy when we see young people giving birth to a baby, because we know unless the parents of the teens intervenes the life of the baby will not be able to be sustain in a proper way in which the baby can grow up and bring forth healthy fruit in his or her life. 


I  have often watch some of these talk shows host, who makes tons of money in exploiting the lives of some of these young men, and women who come on their show.  For example, Steve Wilkos who is a break off of Jerry Springer show, a person who I think has done a lot of harm in the long run to our society.  These producers get these young women and men on their stage and bad mouth, scream at them and humiliate them, to me they are ignorant because, for the most part the reason these people are not good parents is because, they have had parents that were verbally abusive to them when they were children.  The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree.  We can learn from the Bible how to raise our children and how to be a mother and wife.

These parents some, were molested and rape as children, they too saw a lot of drugs and alcohol use in the family.  They are truly the product of their environment.   If you know what the definition of a mother is then “Steve,” you would not be yelling at them telling them to get the “hell” off of your stage.

These host of these show that are not professional in helping people, in themselves need help.  There behavior is  much like the parents that these people who are doing all this weird stuff came out from or was raise in is and that is why they are mess up trying to nurture children. You don't grow up just being a good parent; you are taught how to parent by your parents.

 People reacting to poor parenting parents in this manner is not helping the children or the parent, in fact it is making the situation worse.    Remember a mother is a person who carries and gives birth to a child, then that mother cares for that child.  What does it mean to care for a child 1) care, charge, protection, guardianship -- (attention and management implying responsibility for safety; like how a bodyguard or secret service protects President Obama.  This is what a mother does, however, if you are grown and you make it to adulthood  with no parental protection, you figure in the subconscious of your mind that your child will make it too.  Those parenting skills are passed on.  Therefore, Steve you need to get off of the stage with all that yelling, this is why they are mess up.  To be a mother and a wife you must go to the Bible to get the answers you will need to make it.  

Pastor Tate